Memorandum from God

 

 
   
   

   

   

   

   

   

   

 

   

To:

   

   

You

   

   

From:

   

   

God

   

 

 

 

 

 
 

Take counsel.

 

I hear your cry.

 

It passes through the darkness, filters through the clouds,
  mingles with starlight, and finds its way to my heart on the path of a
  sunbeam.

 

I have anguished over the cry of a hare choked in the noose of a
  snare, a sparrow tumbled from the nest of its mother, a child thrashing
  helplessly in a pond, and a son shredding his blood on a cross.

 

Know that I hear you, also. Be at peace. Be calm.

 

I bring thee relief for your sorrow for I know its cause … and
  its cure.

 

You weep for all your childhood dreams that have vanished with
  the years.

 

You weep for all your self-esteem that has been corrupted by
  failure.

 

You weep for all your potential that has been bartered for
  security.

 

You weep for all your talent that has been wasted through
  misuse.

 

You look upon yourself with disgrace and you turn in terror from
  the image you see in the pool. Who is this mockery of humanity staring back
  at you with bloodless eyes of shame?

 

Where is the grace of your manner, the beauty of your figure,
  the quickness of your movement, the clarity of your mind, the brilliance of
  your tongue? Who stole your goods? Is the thief’s identity known to you, as
  it is to me?

 

Once you placed your head in a pillow of grass in your father’s
  field and looked up at a cathedral of clouds and knew that all the gold of

Babylon

would be yours in time.

 

Once you read from many books and wrote on many tablets,
  convinced beyond any doubt that all the wisdom of Solomon would be equaled
  and surpassed by you.

 

And the seasons would flow into years until lo, you would reign
  supreme in your own garden of Eden.

 

Dost thou remember who implanted those plans and dreams and
  seeds of hope within you?

 

You cannot.

 

You have no memory of that moment when first you emerged from
  your mother’s womb and I placed my hand on your soft brow. And the secret I
  whispered in your small ear when I bestowed my blessings upon you?

 

Remember our secret?

 

You cannot.

 

The passing years have destroyed your recollection, for they
  have filled your mind with fear and doubt and anxiety and remorse and hate
  and there is no room for joyful memories where these beasts habitate.

 

Weep no more. I am with you … and this moment is the dividing
  line of your life. All that has gone before is like unto no more than that
  time you slept within your mother’s womb. What is past is dead. Let the dead
  bury the dead.

 

This day you return from the living dead.

 

This day, like unto Elijah with the widow’s son, I stretch
  myself upon thee three times and you live again.

 

This day, like unto Elisha with the Shunammite’s son, I put my
  mouth upon your mouth and my eyes upon your eyes and my hands upon your hands
  and your flesh is warm again.

 

This day, like unto Jesus at the tomb of Lazarus, I command you
  to come forth and you will walk from your cave of doom to begin a new life.

 

This is your birthday. This is your new date of birth. Your
  first life, like unto a play of the theatre, was only a rehearsal. This time
  the curtain is up. This time the world watches and waits to applaud. This
  time you will not fail.

 

Light your candles. Share your cake. Pour the wine. You have
  been reborn.

 

Like a butterfly from its chrysalis you will fly … fly as high
  as you wish, and neither the wasps nor dragonflies nor mantids of mankind
  shall obstruct your mission or your search for the true riches of life.

 

Feel my hand upon thy head.

 

Attend to my wisdom.

 

Let me share with you, again, the secret you heard at your birth
  and forgot.

 

You are my greatest miracle.

 

You are the greatest miracle in the world.

 

Those were the first words you ever heard. Then you cried. They
  all cry …

 

You did not believe me then … and nothing has happened in the
  intervening years to correct your disbelief. For how could you be a miracle
  when you consider yourself a failure at the most menial of tasks? How can you
  be a miracle when you have little confidence in dealing with the most trivial
  of responsibilities? How can you be a miracle when you are shackled by debt
  and lie awake in torment over whence will come tomorrow’s bread?

 

Enough. The milk that is spilled is sour. Yet, how many
  prophets, how many wise men, how many poets, how many artists, how many
  composers, how many scientists, how many philosophers and messengers have I
  sent with word of your divinity, your potential for godliness, and the
  secrets of achievement? How did you treat them?

 

Still I love you and I am with you now, through these words, to
  fulfill the prophet who announced that the Lord shall set his hand again, the
  second time, to recover the remnant of his people.

 

I have set my hand again.

 

This is the second time.

 

You are my remnant.

 

It is of no avail to ask, haven’t you known, haven’t you heard,
  hasn’t it been told to you from the beginning; haven’t you understood from
  the foundations of the earth?

 

You have not known; you have not heard; you have not understood.

 

You have been told that you are a divinity in disguise, a god
  playing a fool.

 

You have been told that you a special piece of work, noble in
  reason, infinite in faculties, express and admirable in form and moving, like
  an angel in action, like a god in apprehension.

 

You have been told that you are the salt of the earth.

 

You were given the secret even of moving mountains, of
  performing the impossible.

 

You believed no one. You burned your map to happiness, you
  abandoned your claim to peace of mind, you snuffed out the candles that had
  been placed along your destined path of glory, and then you stumbled, lost
  and frightened, in the darkness of futility and self-pity, until you fell
  into a hell of your own creation.

 

Then you cried and beat your breast and cursed the luck that had
  befallen you. You refused to accept the consequences of your own petty
  thoughts and lazy deeds and you searched for a scapegoat on which to blame
  your failure. How quickly you found one.

 

You blamed me!

 

You cried that your handicaps, your mediocrity, your lack of
  opportunity, your failures … were the will of God!

 

You were wrong!

 

Let us take inventory. Let us, first, call a roll of your
  handicaps. For how can I ask you to build a new life lest you have the tools?

 

Are you blind? Does the sun rise and fall without your witness?

 

No. You can see … and the hundred million receptors I have
  placed in your eyes enable you to enjoy the magic of a leaf, a snowflake, a
  pond, an eagle, a child, a cloud, a star, a rose, a rainbow … and the look
  of love. Count one blessing.

 

Are you deaf? Can a baby laugh or cry without your attention?

 

No. You can hear … and the twenty-four thousand fibers I have
  built in each of your ears vibrate to the wind in the trees, the tides on the
  rocks, the majesty of an opera, a robin’s plea, children at play … and the
  words I love you. Count another blessing.

 

Are you mute? Do your lips move and bring forth only spittle?

 

No. You can speak … as can no other of my creatures, and your
  words can calm the angry, uplift the despondent, goad the quitter, cheer the
  unhappy, warm the lonely, praise the worthy, encourage the defeated, teach
  the ignorant … and say I love you. Count another blessing.

 

Are you paralyzed? Does your helpless form despoil the land?

 

No. You can move. You are not a tree condemned to a small plot
  while the wind and world abuses you. You can stretch and run and dance and
  work, for within you I have designed five hundred muscles, two hundred bones,
  and seven miles of nerve fiber all synchronized by me to do your bidding.
  Count another blessing.

 

Are you unloved and unloving? Does loneliness engulf you, night
  and day?

 

No. No more. For now you know love’s secret, that to receive
  love it must be given with no thought of its return. To love for fulfillment,
  satisfaction, or pride is no love. Love is a gift on which no return is
  demanded. Now you know that to love unselfishly is its own reward. And even
  should love not be returned it is not lost, for love not reciprocated will
  flow back to you and soften and purify your heart. Count another blessing.
  Count twice.

 

Is your heart stricken? Does it leak and strain to maintain your
  life?

 

No. Your heart is strong. Touch your chest and feel its rhythm,
  pulsating, hour after hour, day and night, thirty-six million beats each
  year, year after year, asleep or awake, pumping your blood through more than
  sixty thousand miles of veins, arteries, and tubing … pumping more than six
  hundred thousand gallons each year. Man has never created such a machine.
  Count another blessing.

 

Are you diseased of skin? Do people turn in horror when you
  approach?

 

No. Your skin is clear and a marvel of creation, needing only
  that you tend it with soap and oil and brush and care. In time all steels
  will tarnish and rust, but not your skin. Eventually the strongest of metals
  will wear, with use, but not that layer that I have constructed around you.
  Constantly it renews itself, old cells replaced by new, just as the old you
  is now replaced by the new. Count another blessing.

 

Are your lungs befouled? Does your breath of life struggle to
  enter your body?

 

No. Your portholes to life support you even in the vilest of environments
  of your own making, and they labor always to filter life-giving oxygen
  through six hundred million pockets of folded flesh while they rid your body
  of gaseous wastes. Count another blessing.

 

Is your blood poisoned? Is it diluted with water and pus?

 

No. Within your five quarts of blood are twenty-two trillion
  blood cells and within each cell are millions of molecules and within each
  molecule is an atom oscillating at more than ten million times each second.
  Each second, two million of your blood cells die to be replaced by two
  million more in a resurrection that has continued since your first birth. As
  it has always been inside, so now it is on your outside. Count another
  blessing.

 

Are you feeble of mind? Can you no longer think for yourself?

 

No. Your brain is the most complex structure in the universe. I
  know. Within its three pounds are thirteen billion nerve cells, more than
  three times as many cells as there are people on your earth. To help you file
  away every perception, every sound, every taste, every smell, every action
  you have experienced since the day of your birth, I have implanted, within
  your cells, more than one thousand billion billion protein molecules. Every
  incident in your life is there waiting only your recall. And, to assist your
  brain in the control of your body I have dispersed, throughout your form,
  four million pain-sensitive structures, five hundred thousand touch
  detectors, and more than two hundred thousand temperature detectors. No
  nation’s gold is better protected than you. None of your ancient wonders are
  greater than you.

 

You are my finest creation.

 

Within you is enough atomic energy to destroy any of the world’s
  great cities … and rebuild it.

 

Are you poor? Is there no gold or silver in your purse?

 

No. You are rich! Together we have just counted your wealth.
  Study the list. Count them again. Tally your assets!

 

Why have you betrayed yourself? Why have you cried that all the
  blessings of humanity were removed from you? Why did you deceive yourself
  that you were powerless to change your life? Are you without talent, senses,
  abilities, pleasures, instincts, sensations, and pride? Are you without hope?
  Why do you cringe in the shadows, a giant defeated, awaiting only sympathetic
  transport into the welcome void and dampness of hell?

 

You have so much. Your blessings overflow your cup … and you
  have been unmindful of them, like a child spoiled in luxury, since I have
  bestowed them upon you with generosity and regularity.

 

Answer me.

 

Answer yourself.

 

What rich man, old and sick, feeble and helpless, would not
  exchange all the gold in his vault for the blessings you have treated so
  lightly.

 

Know then the first secret to happiness and success - that you
  possess, even now, every blessing necessary to achieve great glory. They are
  your treasure, your tools with which to build, starting today, the foundation
  for a new and better life.

 

Therefore, I say unto you, count your blessings and know that
  you already are my greatest creation. This is the first law you must obey in
  order to perform the greatest miracle in the world, the return of your
  humanity from living death.

 

And be grateful for your lessons learned in poverty. For he is
  not poor who has little; only he that desires much … and true security lies
  not in the things one has but in the things one can do without.

 

Where are the handicaps that produced your failure? They existed
  only in your mind.

 

Count your blessings.

 

And the second law is like unto the first. Proclaim your rarity.

 

You had condemned yourself to a potter’s field, and there you
  lay, unable to forgive your own failure, destroying yourself with self-hate,
  self-incrimination, and revulsion at your crimes against yourself and others.

 

Are you not perplexed?

 

Do you not wonder why I am able to forgive your failures, your
  transgressions, your pitiful demeanor … when you cannot forgive yourself?

 

I address you now, for three reasons. You need me. You are not
  one of a herd heading for destruction in a gray mass of mediocrity. And …
  you are a great rarity.

 

Consider a painting by Rembrandt or a bronze by Degas or a
  violin by Stradivarius or a play by Shakespeare. They have great value for
  two reasons: their creators were masters and they are few in number. Yet
  there are more than one of each of these.

 

On that reasoning you are the most valuable treasure on the face
  of the earth, for you know who created you and there is only one of you.

 

Never, in all the seventy billion humans who have walked this
  planet since the beginning of time has there been anyone exactly like you.

 

Never, until the end of time, will there be another such as you.

 

You have shown no knowledge or appreciation of your uniqueness.

 

Yet, you are the rarest thing in the world.

 

From your father, in his moment of supreme love, flowed countless
  seeds of love, more than four hundred million in number. All of them, as they
  swam within your mother, gave up the ghost and died. All except one! You.

 

You alone persevered within the loving warmth of your mother’s
  body, searching for your other half, a single cell from your mother so small
  that more than two million would be necessary to fill an acorn shell. Yet,
  despite impossible odds, in that vast ocean of darkness and disaster, you
  persevered, found that infinitesimal cell, joined with it, and began a new
  life. Your life.

 

You arrived, bringing with you, as does every child, the message
  that I was not yet discouraged of man. Two cells now united in a miracle. Two
  cells, each containing twenty-three chromosomes and within each chromosome
  hundreds of genes, which would govern every characteristic about you, from
  the color of your eyes to the charm of your manner, to the size of your
  brain.

 

With all the combinations at my command, beginning with that
  single sperm from your father’s four hundred million, through the hundreds of
  genes in each of the chromosomes from your mother and father, I could have
  created three hundred thousand billion humans, each different from the other.

 

But who did I bring forth?

 

You! One of a kind. Rarest of the rare. A priceless treasure,
  possessed of qualities in mind and speech and movement and appearance and
  actions as no other who has ever lived, lives, or shall live.

 

Why have you valued yourself in pennies when you are worth a
  king’s ransom?

 

Why did you listen to those who demeaned you … and far worse,
  why did you believe them?

 

Take counsel. No longer hide your rarity in the dark. Bring it
  forth. Show the world. Strive not to walk as your brother walks, nor talk as
  your leader talks, nor labor as do the mediocre. Never do as another. Never
  imitate. For how do you know that you may not imitate evil; and he who
  imitates evil always goes beyond the example set, while he who imitates what
  is good always falls short. Imitate no one. Be yourself. Show your rarity to
  the world and they will shower you with gold. This then is the second law.

 

Proclaim your rarity.

 

And now you have received two laws.

 

Count your blessings! Proclaim your rarity!

 

You have no handicaps. You are not mediocre.

 

You nod. You force a smile. You admit your self-deception.

 

What of your next complaint?

Opportunity

never seeks thee?

 

Take counsel and it shall come to pass, for now I give you the
  law of success in every venture. Many centuries ago this law was given to
  your forefathers from a mountain top. Some heeded the law and lo, their life
  was filled with the fruit of happiness, accomplishment, gold, and peace of
  mind. Most listened not, for they sought magic means, devious routes, or
  waited for the devil called luck to deliver to them the riches of life. They
  waited in vain … just as you waited, and then they wept, blaming their lack
  of fortune.

 

The law is simple. Young or old, pauper or king, white or black,
  male or female … all can use the secret to their advantage; for all the
  rules and speeches and scriptures of success and how to attain it, only one
  method has never failed … whomsoever shall compel ye to go with him one
  mile … go with him two.

 

This then is the third law … the secret that will produce
  riches and acclaim beyond your dreams. Go another mile!

 

The only certain means of success is to render more and better
  service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be. This is a
  habit followed by all successful people since the beginning of time.
  Therefore I saith the surest way to doom yourself to mediocrity is to perform
  only the work for which you are paid.

 

Think not ye are being cheated if you deliver more than the
  silver you receive. For there is a pendulum to all life and the sweat you
  deliver, if not rewarded today, will swing back tomorrow, tenfold. The
  mediocre never goes another mile, for why should he cheat himself, he thinks.
  But you are not mediocre. To go another mile is a privilege you must
  appropriate by your own initiative. You cannot, you must not avoid it.
  Neglect it, do only as little as the others, and the responsibility for your
  failure is yours alone.

 

You can no more render service without receiving just
  compensation than you can withhold the rendering of it without suffering the
  loss of reward. Cause and effect, means and ends, seed and fruit, these
  cannot be separated. The effect already blooms in the cause, the end
  pre-exists in the means, and the fruit is always in the seed.

 

Go another mile.

 

Concern yourself not, should you serve an ungrateful master.
  Serve him more.

 

And instead of him, let it be me who is in your debt, for then
  you will know that every minute, every stroke of extra service will be
  repaid. And worry not, should your reward not come soon. For the longer
  payment is withheld, the better for you … and compound interest on compound
  interest is this law’s greatest benefit.

 

You cannot command success, you can only deserve it … and now
  you know the great secret necessary in order to merit its rare reward.

 

Go another mile!

 

Where is this field whence you cried there was no opportunity?
  Look! Look around thee. See, where only yesterday you wallowed on the refuse
  of self-pity, you now walk tall on a carpet of gold. Nothing has changed …
  except you, but you are everything.

 

You are my greatest miracle.

 

You are the greatest miracle in the world.

 

And now the laws of happiness and success are three.

 

Count your blessings! Proclaim your rarity! Go another mile!

 

Be patient with your progress. To count your blessings with
  gratitude, to proclaim your rarity with pride, to go an extra mile and then
  another, these acts are not accomplished in the blinking of an eye. Yet, that
  which you acquire with most difficulty you retain the longest; as those who
  have earned a fortune are more careful of it than those by whom it was
  inherited.

 

And fear not as you enter your new life. Every noble acquisition
  is attended with its risks. He who fears to encounter the one must not expect
  to obtain the other. Now you know you are a miracle. And there is no fear in
  a miracle.

 

Be proud. You are not the momentary whim of a careless creator
  experimenting in the laboratory of life. You are not a slave of forces that
  you cannot comprehend. You are a free manifestation of no force but mine, of
  no love but mine. You were made with a purpose.

 

Feel my hand. Hear my words.

 

You need me … and I need you.

 

We have a world to rebuild … and if it requireth a miracle
  what is that to us? We are both miracles and now we have each other.

 

Never have I lost faith in you since that day when I first spun
  you from a giant wave and tossed you helplessly on the sands. As you measure
  time that was more than five hundred million years ago. There were many
  models, many shapes, many sizes, before I reached perfection in you more than
  thirty thousand years ago. I have made no further effort to improve on you in
  all these years.

 

For how could one improve on a miracle? You were a marvel to
  behold and I was pleased. I gave you this world and dominion over it. Then,
  to enable you to reach your full potential I placed my hand upon you, once
  more, and endowed you with powers unknown to any other creature in the
  universe, even unto this day.

 

I gave you the power to think.
  I gave you the power to love.
  I gave you the power to will.
  I gave you the power to laugh.
  I gave you the power to imagine.
  I gave you the power to create.
  I gave you the power to plan.
  I gave you the power to speak.
  I gave you the power to pray.
  I gave you the power to heal.

 

My pride in you knew no bounds. You were my ultimate creation,
  my greatest miracle. A complete living being. One who can adjust to any
  climate, any hardship, any challenge. One who can manage his own destiny
  without any interference from me. One who can translate a sensation or
  perception, not by instinct, but by thought and deliberation into whatever
  action is best for himself and all humanity.

 

Thus we come to the fourth law of success and happiness … for
  I gave you one more power, a power so great that not even my angels possess
  it.

 

I gave you … the power to choose.

 

With this gift I placed you even above my angels … for angels
  are not free to choose sin. I gave you complete control over your destiny. I
  told you to determine, for yourself, your own nature in accordance with your
  own free will. Neither heavenly nor earthly in nature, you were free to
  fashion yourself in whatever form you preferred. You had the power to choose
  to degenerate into the lowest forms of life, but you also had the power, out
  of your soul’s judgment, to be reborn into the higher forms, which are
  divine.

 

I have never withdrawn your great power, the power to choose.

 

What have you done with this tremendous force? Look at yourself.
  Think of the choices you have made in your life and recall, now, those bitter
  moments when you would fall to your knees if only you had the opportunity to
  choose again.

 

What is past is past … and now you know the fourth great law
  of happiness and success … Use wisely, your power of choice.

 

Choose to love … rather than hate.
  Choose to laugh … rather than cry.
  Choose to create … rather than destroy.
  Choose to persevere … rather than quit.
  Choose to praise … rather than gossip.
  Choose to heal … rather than wound.
  Choose to give … rather than steal.
  Choose to act … rather than procrastinate.
  Choose to grow … rather than rot.
  Choose to pray … rather than curse.
  Choose to live … rather than die.

 

Now you know that your misfortunes were not my will, for all
  power was vested in you, and the accumulation of deeds and thoughts which
  placed you on the refuse of humanity were your doing, not mine. My gifts of
  power were too large for your small nature. Now you have grown tall and wise
  and the fruits of the land will be yours.

 

You are more than a human being, you are a human becoming.

 

You are capable of great wonders. Your potential is unlimited.
  Who else, among my creatures, has mastered fire? Who else, among my
  creatures, has conquered gravity, has pierced the heavens, has conquered
  disease and pestilence and drought?

 

Never demean yourself again!

 

Never settle for the crumbs of life!

 

Never hide your talents, from this day hence!

 

Remember the child who says, "when I am big boy." But
  what is that? For the big boy says. "when I grow up." And then the
  grown up, he says, "when I am wed." But to be wed, what is that,
  after all? The thought then changes to "when I retire." And then,
  retirement comes, and he looks back over it and somehow he has missed it all
  and it is gone.

 

Enjoy this day, today … and tomorrow, tomorrow.

 

You have performed the greatest miracle in the world.

 

You have returned from a living death.

 

You will feel self-pity no more and each new day will be a
  challenge and a joy.

 

You have been born again … but just as before, you can choose
  failure and despair or success and happiness. The choice is yours. The choice
  is exclusively yours. I can only watch, as before … in pride … or sorrow.

 

Remember, then, the four laws of happiness and success.

 

  • Count your blessings.
  • Proclaim your rarity.
  • Go another mile.
  • Use wisely your power of
           choice.

 

And one more, to fulfill the other four. Do all things with love
  … love for yourself, love for all others, and love for me.

 

Wipe away your tears. Reach out, grasp my hand, and stand
  straight.

 

Let me cut the grave cloths that have bound you.

 

This day you have been notified.

 

YOU ARE THE GREATEST MIRACLE IN THE
  WORLD

 


 

 

 

From  the book "The
  Greatest Miracle in the World" by Og Mandino

 

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PandayHave you watched the recent animation movie from Dreamworks, Kung Fu Panda?

I watched the movie recently. It is very entertaining, but more than that, the movie taught me a number of lessons on success journey.

It shares a story of a Panda named Po in his journey of becoming a kung fu master. Despite of all the inadequacy and limitations, he does not give up.

Robert Hruzek from Middle Zone Musings has got another group writing project in his WILF (What I Learned From…) series. This month’s topic is all about animal, what we can learn from animals.

This movie may not reflect the real panda, but I will try to combine on the things that we can learn from both the giant panda and the movie.

The first lesson

 

In the movie, Po is a big fat panda, his belly and everything about his look can’t justify why he will become a kung fu master. If he is willing to look an honest look at himself, he will easily judge himself to stop following his dream and selling noodle just like his father.

No one believes that he can become a kung fu master, except one person. That’s his great master, Master Oogway who has chosen him to become a dragon warrior. He believes in him despite of all his non-affirming looks.

Checking the Wikipedia page on the real Giant Panda, I learned one more thing about doing the impossible. It is the giant panda’s strange diet. Here’s from the article…


photo credit: tinyfroglet

Despite its taxonomic classification as a carnivore, the panda has a diet that is primarily herbivorous, which consists almost exclusively of bamboo.
~Giant Panda @ Wikipedia

Do you think that it will change their eating behaviour if he knows that he was made to become a carnivore? Both the real panda and the panda ‘Po’ in the movie taught me one lesson; that your knowledge of yourself doesn’t have to limit you.

The personality trap

 

I have one friend that hated taking personality test. He found that personality test will only limit you, ‘box’ you into a particular type. People also often use their knowledge of themselves to make an excuse on their behaviour and actions.

He has made a point there that some people, because of their knowledge, mistakenly trap themselves into their own classification. Those are the personality that often we think it will limit us. Neither introversion nor extroversion should limit you. It may help you understand why you behave in a certain way, but they should not hold you back from pursuing what you’re passionate about.

Another lesson from animal


photo credit: *Micky

There is another animal that can teach us more about how its ignorance can get us what human think is impossible. They have flown even before human renewed the law of aviation. Despite of what men have researched and believed for a long time, they are still flying. Those are the bees.

According to earlier laws of Aviation, there was no way that a bee should be able to fly.
Its wings are way too small to get its fat little body off the ground.
The bees, of course, flew anyway.
Because bees didn’t care what humans thought was impossible.
~The Bee’s Law via Too Crazy for A.. B.. C..

A little test
Try folding your arm! Which arm is on top of the other arm? If you notice, some of us will put our right arm on top of our left arm, while some others doing it the other way round.
Similarly, personality is only a preference and not a classification. They should not ‘box’ you; they are also not the excuse for you to stay in your comfort zone.

Unlike my friend, I don’t despise personality tests. I found it useful to understand yourself and others. They help you not to judge yourself or others too fast. Those are what I think they are useful for, not to limit you, but to help you grow. Personality is not your master to obey; it is your assistant to help you.

The past and future trap

 

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery. But today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.
~Master Oogway (Kung Fu Panda)

The second trap that people often use is their past and future. We are often too attached with our success and failures in the past that we afraid to make another mistake today. Sometimes, we also worry too much of the future that we are petrified to make some action that we really need to do today. If we want to be happy, it’s good if we can just accept the gift that we have, that is today, and we can make the best out of it.

Pursue your passion
Scott H. Young has one article that question us, “Should you work on your strengths or weakness?” We often think too much about which ones are our strengths and weaknesses that we forgot a more important thing. That is your dream and passion.

Al from 7P shared a similar article here. Inside he quoted Marcus Buckingham (of Go Put Your Strengths to Work who also worked with StrengthsFinder) on the definition of strength that you should focus on…

Strengths must include knowledge, skills, and talent, and true talent energizes you when you do it rather than drain you from the effort.
~Marcus Buckingham

If you find yourself avoiding or procrastinating on doing what they love, I would like to share the following article from Jonathan Mead on why some of us are hesitating to do what we love. One crucial thing that Jonathan shared is to suspend judgment. Imperfection is normal in the beginning so do not judge yourself too early.

The second lesson

 

Spoiler alert: The second lesson is what I learn from the ending. If you plan to watch the movie, you may want to read it after you watch.

Po the Panda is chosen to be a dragon warrior, someone that will be needed to defeat Tai Lung, a greedy leopard that threatens the academy existence. However, Po need to train himself to be qualified of becoming a dragon warrior. More importantly, he needs to get and learn from the dragon scroll to become a dragon warrior and defeat Tai Lung.

Tai Lung is a former student in the academy. He is very well trained on his kung fu but it’s not the same case with his character. He went mad when he knew that he was not chosen to become the dragon warrior. He wanted to get the dragon scroll by force. He was even willing to hurt his teacher, his step-father to get it. He was detained in prison after his first attempt. In the movie, he managed to escape from the prison and he wanted to get the dragon scroll again.

Making the story short, both of them eventually get and read the dragon scroll. Unfortunately, the dragon scroll is nothing but a mirror that they can see their face on it. Unfortunately, their search for the kung fu secret ends up in vanity. There is no secret; the secret is only they themselves.

The mirror after success
Imagine you look at the mirror after your success, will you be satisfied with who you are? Will you be happy with who you have become? I’m not talking about what you have gained after your success, but internally who you have become after your success.

If your pursuit of success takes a lot of backstabbing, cheating, dishonesty, or maybe ignorance to the people that matters a lot to you like your families and friends, I’ll guarantee that it won’t make you happy.

At the end is not about what you have gained, but who you have become. That’s the question that we all need to ask ourselves in our success journey.

The highest reward for man’s improvement is not what he gets for it; it’s what he becomes as a result of it.
~John C. Maxwell (Be A People Person)

Success or significance?
Which one do you pursue? Bob Bufford shared in his book Half-Time shared a message which is aimed to people in their middle age. He made a point that we all have to switch our game plan from success to significance when we are reaching our half time.

If success is not your master but your servant, you’ll be willing to use it for the pursuit of significance. It’s not an exchange where you leave all what you have achieved so far, but it’s an adjustment on the priority, purpose, and vision on what you are doing.

Bob introduced the 50/50 proposition to start working on the pursuit of significance. That is spending your energy and resources 50% for the things of your own and your families’ need, and the other 50% for others, developing others and lifting people up. It’s the key to a significant life. It’s a life that will make you proud and satisfied of who you are after you reached your success. It is someone that you won’t be ashamed of when you look at the mirror eventually.

Be true to your heart!
Don’t give up on your dream, but don’t exchange your value for what you dream. Be true to your heart! It’s a song from the movie Mulan that I hope will encourage you. Listen to it and start listening to your heart! Your heart cannot tell you lies!

 

July 25th, 2008 at 6:10 am | Comments & Trackbacks (7) | Permalink


Stone. Water. Action.

You throw the stone.

The stone hits the water.

The splash that the stone creates is the direct result of the action you just took.
The Ripple Effect of the water fanning out is the sometimes unpredictable result of the action.

Simple right?

For  the same exact formula can be applied to your life and career.

Think of someone you want to make an impact on.

What is important to them? What might they need? What are they possibly missing?

Figure out that and you have your stone.

Now take that stone and turn it into action. Create a splash and in turn a Ripple for them.

Maybe that means opening a door to a new job or new connection for them. Maybe that means helping them gain access to information that only you can provide. Maybe it as simple as buying them a cup of coffee to let them know you are there to talk if they need someone to talk to.

The Ripples we create by taking the time to create the action for others is where the unpredictable and often incredible Ripples come back to us; often in was we could never imagine or foresee.

I met a very nice young lady a few months ago as a favor to another friend of mine. My friend knew this gal was struggling with her new business and couldn’t necessarily afford an executive or personal coach but knew she needed help. She knows that I am always a sucker to help a new entrepreneur in a pinch so she made the call and I agreed to a meeting.

It turns out the woman I met with had a great business but basically needed to be pushed and prodded on a few market strategies and ultimately needed a few doors opened for her (stone). I helped her validate what she was thinking in terms of strategy and took action and opened a few doors for her (action). She was incredibly grateful for the Ripples that I started for her and made some immediate inroads she likely would not to have made on her own (Ripple). She shared my philosophy with her husband who works for a major company that just so happened to be a company I wanted to get into. He was so impressed with what I had done for his wife’s confidence that he wanted to learn more about what I did and how it might be applied in the work is company does. Today we are exploring ways to bring the Ripple concept into his company (Ripples extending out and returning to me).

Not all Ripples you create for others will automatically return to you but that isn’t the point. The simple fact that you are willing to take the chance and create a Ripple for someone stacks a significant portion of the odds in your favor that something good will come out of your efforts. Whether that is a Ripple that buoys your personal or professional agenda or not, the simple feeling of satisfaction of helping another human being in my opinion is the ultimate reward.

Stone. Water. Action.

Are you ready to Ripple?

Well then…..Ripple On My Friends!!!

July 24th, 2008 at 5:18 am | Comments & Trackbacks (2) | Permalink

We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects. –Herman Melville


I am, at heart, a very optimistic person provided I have gotten enough sleep. Considering my unusual familiarity with the awful state of the world, my firm belief that solutions to many problems lie in what are currently some of the most obscure and marginalized belief systems on the planet, and my own long personal history of failure to realize or see sustained any positive trend in the current affairs of the world both locally and globally, my closest amigos often wonder what is at the root of my cheerfulness, to what pandora’s box do I regularly return for hope.

By way of explanation, consider the quote from Melville above. Whether we perceive ourselves as living for ourselves alone or not, whether we are able to sense the "thousand fibers" connecting us to our fellows, to perhaps every particle in the universe, those connections are there. What we do and how we do it will probably have effects, forever and a day, to the end of time, and eventually in every corner of the cosmos. The effect of our actions can be profound, can over time be magnified, and can have great consequences. It would be impossible to predict just what results will be born from my or anyone’s actions, but we can assume, as an act of faith perhaps, that good will tend to breed further good, and bad will have the opposite effect. What is good and what is bad I leave entirely up to you.

Melville has not been the only person to ever express the feeling that all is intertwined in some way that is not readily obvious. The same sentiments have been expressed by others working in the realm of literature, and this is a common theme expressed by some of the more religious among us, most notably among those who have described direct mystical vision. Read the works of Whitman. Consider the inspired origins of Buddism, Islam, or Christainity, and the thoughts of some saints. However transient the vision might have been, or muddled it became in the attempt to share the vision with others, it is a persistent theme in human history.

The internet, with its intricate webwork, offers an interesting microcosmic model of the thousand, should we say trillion, fibers connecting us to which Melville alludes. If you ever wonder of what consequences so small a node as yourself could have on the vast web of life, consider the Butterfly effect and take heart.

The Butterfly effect refers to the mathematical discovery back in 1963 by a meteorologist named Edward Lorenz who found that over time minute changes in a complex system like planetary weather lead to large-scale consequences. To describe the effect an analogy was made to the possiblity of a butterfly&39;s wing flapping in central Asia eventually causing a hurricane halfway around the world. It must be true. It’s math, right?

It seems logical to assume that what is true for the complexity of weather systems is equally true for the complex, chaotic social systems we find ourselves immersed in. So flap your wings, and to the degree that you can do so purposefully in an attempt to further, at the very least, peace, love and understanding, flap hard. Someone somewhere down the line may enjoy the refreshing breeze.

John Korber, December, 1998

July 7th, 2008 at 10:19 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink