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Memorandum from God
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Take counsel.
I hear your cry.
It passes through the darkness, filters through the clouds,
I have anguished over the cry of a hare choked in the noose of a
Know that I hear you, also. Be at peace. Be calm.
I bring thee relief for your sorrow for I know its cause … and
You weep for all your childhood dreams that have vanished with
You weep for all your self-esteem that has been corrupted by
You weep for all your potential that has been bartered for
You weep for all your talent that has been wasted through
You look upon yourself with disgrace and you turn in terror from
Where is the grace of your manner, the beauty of your figure,
Once you placed your head in a pillow of grass in your father’s Babylon would be yours in time.
Once you read from many books and wrote on many tablets,
And the seasons would flow into years until lo, you would reign
Dost thou remember who implanted those plans and dreams and
You cannot.
You have no memory of that moment when first you emerged from
Remember our secret?
You cannot.
The passing years have destroyed your recollection, for they
Weep no more. I am with you … and this moment is the dividing
This day you return from the living dead.
This day, like unto Elijah with the widow’s son, I stretch
This day, like unto Elisha with the Shunammite’s son, I put my
This day, like unto Jesus at the tomb of Lazarus, I command you
This is your birthday. This is your new date of birth. Your
Light your candles. Share your cake. Pour the wine. You have
Like a butterfly from its chrysalis you will fly … fly as high
Feel my hand upon thy head.
Attend to my wisdom.
Let me share with you, again, the secret you heard at your birth
You are my greatest miracle.
You are the greatest miracle in the world.
Those were the first words you ever heard. Then you cried. They
You did not believe me then … and nothing has happened in the
Enough. The milk that is spilled is sour. Yet, how many
Still I love you and I am with you now, through these words, to
I have set my hand again.
This is the second time.
You are my remnant.
It is of no avail to ask, haven’t you known, haven’t you heard,
You have not known; you have not heard; you have not understood.
You have been told that you are a divinity in disguise, a god
You have been told that you a special piece of work, noble in
You have been told that you are the salt of the earth.
You were given the secret even of moving mountains, of
You believed no one. You burned your map to happiness, you
Then you cried and beat your breast and cursed the luck that had
You blamed me!
You cried that your handicaps, your mediocrity, your lack of
You were wrong!
Let us take inventory. Let us, first, call a roll of your
Are you blind? Does the sun rise and fall without your witness?
No. You can see … and the hundred million receptors I have
Are you deaf? Can a baby laugh or cry without your attention?
No. You can hear … and the twenty-four thousand fibers I have
Are you mute? Do your lips move and bring forth only spittle?
No. You can speak … as can no other of my creatures, and your
Are you paralyzed? Does your helpless form despoil the land?
No. You can move. You are not a tree condemned to a small plot
Are you unloved and unloving? Does loneliness engulf you, night
No. No more. For now you know love’s secret, that to receive
Is your heart stricken? Does it leak and strain to maintain your
No. Your heart is strong. Touch your chest and feel its rhythm,
Are you diseased of skin? Do people turn in horror when you
No. Your skin is clear and a marvel of creation, needing only
Are your lungs befouled? Does your breath of life struggle to
No. Your portholes to life support you even in the vilest of environments
Is your blood poisoned? Is it diluted with water and pus?
No. Within your five quarts of blood are twenty-two trillion
Are you feeble of mind? Can you no longer think for yourself?
No. Your brain is the most complex structure in the universe. I
You are my finest creation.
Within you is enough atomic energy to destroy any of the world’s
Are you poor? Is there no gold or silver in your purse?
No. You are rich! Together we have just counted your wealth.
Why have you betrayed yourself? Why have you cried that all the
You have so much. Your blessings overflow your cup … and you
Answer me.
Answer yourself.
What rich man, old and sick, feeble and helpless, would not
Know then the first secret to happiness and success - that you
Therefore, I say unto you, count your blessings and know that
And be grateful for your lessons learned in poverty. For he is
Where are the handicaps that produced your failure? They existed
Count your blessings.
And the second law is like unto the first. Proclaim your rarity.
You had condemned yourself to a potter’s field, and there you
Are you not perplexed?
Do you not wonder why I am able to forgive your failures, your
I address you now, for three reasons. You need me. You are not
Consider a painting by Rembrandt or a bronze by Degas or a
On that reasoning you are the most valuable treasure on the face
Never, in all the seventy billion humans who have walked this
Never, until the end of time, will there be another such as you.
You have shown no knowledge or appreciation of your uniqueness.
Yet, you are the rarest thing in the world.
From your father, in his moment of supreme love, flowed countless
You alone persevered within the loving warmth of your mother’s
You arrived, bringing with you, as does every child, the message
With all the combinations at my command, beginning with that
But who did I bring forth?
You! One of a kind. Rarest of the rare. A priceless treasure,
Why have you valued yourself in pennies when you are worth a
Why did you listen to those who demeaned you … and far worse,
Take counsel. No longer hide your rarity in the dark. Bring it
Proclaim your rarity.
And now you have received two laws.
Count your blessings! Proclaim your rarity!
You have no handicaps. You are not mediocre.
You nod. You force a smile. You admit your self-deception.
What of your next complaint? Opportunity never seeks thee?
Take counsel and it shall come to pass, for now I give you the
The law is simple. Young or old, pauper or king, white or black,
This then is the third law … the secret that will produce
The only certain means of success is to render more and better
Think not ye are being cheated if you deliver more than the
You can no more render service without receiving just
Go another mile.
Concern yourself not, should you serve an ungrateful master.
And instead of him, let it be me who is in your debt, for then
You cannot command success, you can only deserve it … and now
Go another mile!
Where is this field whence you cried there was no opportunity?
You are my greatest miracle.
You are the greatest miracle in the world.
And now the laws of happiness and success are three.
Count your blessings! Proclaim your rarity! Go another mile!
Be patient with your progress. To count your blessings with
And fear not as you enter your new life. Every noble acquisition
Be proud. You are not the momentary whim of a careless creator
Feel my hand. Hear my words.
You need me … and I need you.
We have a world to rebuild … and if it requireth a miracle
Never have I lost faith in you since that day when I first spun
For how could one improve on a miracle? You were a marvel to
I gave you the power to think.
My pride in you knew no bounds. You were my ultimate creation,
Thus we come to the fourth law of success and happiness … for
I gave you … the power to choose.
With this gift I placed you even above my angels … for angels
I have never withdrawn your great power, the power to choose.
What have you done with this tremendous force? Look at yourself.
What is past is past … and now you know the fourth great law
Choose to love … rather than hate.
Now you know that your misfortunes were not my will, for all
You are more than a human being, you are a human becoming.
You are capable of great wonders. Your potential is unlimited.
Never demean yourself again!
Never settle for the crumbs of life!
Never hide your talents, from this day hence!
Remember the child who says, "when I am big boy." But
Enjoy this day, today … and tomorrow, tomorrow.
You have performed the greatest miracle in the world.
You have returned from a living death.
You will feel self-pity no more and each new day will be a
You have been born again … but just as before, you can choose
Remember, then, the four laws of happiness and success.
And one more, to fulfill the other four. Do all things with love
Wipe away your tears. Reach out, grasp my hand, and stand
Let me cut the grave cloths that have bound you.
This day you have been notified.
YOU ARE THE GREATEST MIRACLE IN THE
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PandayHave you watched the recent animation movie from Dreamworks, Kung Fu Panda?
I watched the movie recently. It is very entertaining, but more than that, the movie taught me a number of lessons on success journey.
It shares a story of a Panda named Po in his journey of becoming a kung fu master. Despite of all the inadequacy and limitations, he does not give up.
Robert Hruzek from Middle Zone Musings has got another group writing project in his WILF (What I Learned From…) series. This month’s topic is all about animal, what we can learn from animals.
This movie may not reflect the real panda, but I will try to combine on the things that we can learn from both the giant panda and the movie.
The first lesson
In the movie, Po is a big fat panda, his belly and everything about his look can’t justify why he will become a kung fu master. If he is willing to look an honest look at himself, he will easily judge himself to stop following his dream and selling noodle just like his father.
No one believes that he can become a kung fu master, except one person. That’s his great master, Master Oogway who has chosen him to become a dragon warrior. He believes in him despite of all his non-affirming looks.
Checking the Wikipedia page on the real Giant Panda, I learned one more thing about doing the impossible. It is the giant panda’s strange diet. Here’s from the article…
photo credit: tinyfroglet
Despite its taxonomic classification as a carnivore, the panda has a diet that is primarily herbivorous, which consists almost exclusively of bamboo.
~Giant Panda @ Wikipedia
Do you think that it will change their eating behaviour if he knows that he was made to become a carnivore? Both the real panda and the panda ‘Po’ in the movie taught me one lesson; that your knowledge of yourself doesn’t have to limit you.
The personality trap
I have one friend that hated taking personality test. He found that personality test will only limit you, ‘box’ you into a particular type. People also often use their knowledge of themselves to make an excuse on their behaviour and actions.
He has made a point there that some people, because of their knowledge, mistakenly trap themselves into their own classification. Those are the personality that often we think it will limit us. Neither introversion nor extroversion should limit you. It may help you understand why you behave in a certain way, but they should not hold you back from pursuing what you’re passionate about.
Another lesson from animal
There is another animal that can teach us more about how its ignorance can get us what human think is impossible. They have flown even before human renewed the law of aviation. Despite of what men have researched and believed for a long time, they are still flying. Those are the bees.
According to earlier laws of Aviation, there was no way that a bee should be able to fly.
Its wings are way too small to get its fat little body off the ground.
The bees, of course, flew anyway.
Because bees didn’t care what humans thought was impossible.
~The Bee’s Law via Too Crazy for A.. B.. C..
A little test
Try folding your arm! Which arm is on top of the other arm? If you notice, some of us will put our right arm on top of our left arm, while some others doing it the other way round.
Similarly, personality is only a preference and not a classification. They should not ‘box’ you; they are also not the excuse for you to stay in your comfort zone.
Unlike my friend, I don’t despise personality tests. I found it useful to understand yourself and others. They help you not to judge yourself or others too fast. Those are what I think they are useful for, not to limit you, but to help you grow. Personality is not your master to obey; it is your assistant to help you.
The past and future trap
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery. But today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.
~Master Oogway (Kung Fu Panda)
The second trap that people often use is their past and future. We are often too attached with our success and failures in the past that we afraid to make another mistake today. Sometimes, we also worry too much of the future that we are petrified to make some action that we really need to do today. If we want to be happy, it’s good if we can just accept the gift that we have, that is today, and we can make the best out of it.
Pursue your passion
Scott H. Young has one article that question us, “Should you work on your strengths or weakness?” We often think too much about which ones are our strengths and weaknesses that we forgot a more important thing. That is your dream and passion.
Al from 7P shared a similar article here. Inside he quoted Marcus Buckingham (of Go Put Your Strengths to Work who also worked with StrengthsFinder) on the definition of strength that you should focus on…
Strengths must include knowledge, skills, and talent, and true talent energizes you when you do it rather than drain you from the effort.
~Marcus Buckingham
If you find yourself avoiding or procrastinating on doing what they love, I would like to share the following article from Jonathan Mead on why some of us are hesitating to do what we love. One crucial thing that Jonathan shared is to suspend judgment. Imperfection is normal in the beginning so do not judge yourself too early.
The second lesson
Spoiler alert: The second lesson is what I learn from the ending. If you plan to watch the movie, you may want to read it after you watch.
Po the Panda is chosen to be a dragon warrior, someone that will be needed to defeat Tai Lung, a greedy leopard that threatens the academy existence. However, Po need to train himself to be qualified of becoming a dragon warrior. More importantly, he needs to get and learn from the dragon scroll to become a dragon warrior and defeat Tai Lung.
Tai Lung is a former student in the academy. He is very well trained on his kung fu but it’s not the same case with his character. He went mad when he knew that he was not chosen to become the dragon warrior. He wanted to get the dragon scroll by force. He was even willing to hurt his teacher, his step-father to get it. He was detained in prison after his first attempt. In the movie, he managed to escape from the prison and he wanted to get the dragon scroll again.
Making the story short, both of them eventually get and read the dragon scroll. Unfortunately, the dragon scroll is nothing but a mirror that they can see their face on it. Unfortunately, their search for the kung fu secret ends up in vanity. There is no secret; the secret is only they themselves.
The mirror after success
Imagine you look at the mirror after your success, will you be satisfied with who you are? Will you be happy with who you have become? I’m not talking about what you have gained after your success, but internally who you have become after your success.
If your pursuit of success takes a lot of backstabbing, cheating, dishonesty, or maybe ignorance to the people that matters a lot to you like your families and friends, I’ll guarantee that it won’t make you happy.
At the end is not about what you have gained, but who you have become. That’s the question that we all need to ask ourselves in our success journey.
The highest reward for man’s improvement is not what he gets for it; it’s what he becomes as a result of it.
~John C. Maxwell (Be A People Person)
Success or significance?
Which one do you pursue? Bob Bufford shared in his book Half-Time shared a message which is aimed to people in their middle age. He made a point that we all have to switch our game plan from success to significance when we are reaching our half time.
If success is not your master but your servant, you’ll be willing to use it for the pursuit of significance. It’s not an exchange where you leave all what you have achieved so far, but it’s an adjustment on the priority, purpose, and vision on what you are doing.
Bob introduced the 50/50 proposition to start working on the pursuit of significance. That is spending your energy and resources 50% for the things of your own and your families’ need, and the other 50% for others, developing others and lifting people up. It’s the key to a significant life. It’s a life that will make you proud and satisfied of who you are after you reached your success. It is someone that you won’t be ashamed of when you look at the mirror eventually.
Be true to your heart!
Don’t give up on your dream, but don’t exchange your value for what you dream. Be true to your heart! It’s a song from the movie Mulan that I hope will encourage you. Listen to it and start listening to your heart! Your heart cannot tell you lies!
Stone. Water. Action.
You throw the stone.
The stone hits the water.
The splash that the stone creates is the direct result of the action you just took.
The Ripple Effect of the water fanning out is the sometimes unpredictable result of the action.
Simple right?
For the same exact formula can be applied to your life and career.
Think of someone you want to make an impact on.
What is important to them? What might they need? What are they possibly missing?
Figure out that and you have your stone.
Now take that stone and turn it into action. Create a splash and in turn a Ripple for them.
Maybe that means opening a door to a new job or new connection for them. Maybe that means helping them gain access to information that only you can provide. Maybe it as simple as buying them a cup of coffee to let them know you are there to talk if they need someone to talk to.
The Ripples we create by taking the time to create the action for others is where the unpredictable and often incredible Ripples come back to us; often in was we could never imagine or foresee.
I met a very nice young lady a few months ago as a favor to another friend of mine. My friend knew this gal was struggling with her new business and couldn’t necessarily afford an executive or personal coach but knew she needed help. She knows that I am always a sucker to help a new entrepreneur in a pinch so she made the call and I agreed to a meeting.
It turns out the woman I met with had a great business but basically needed to be pushed and prodded on a few market strategies and ultimately needed a few doors opened for her (stone). I helped her validate what she was thinking in terms of strategy and took action and opened a few doors for her (action). She was incredibly grateful for the Ripples that I started for her and made some immediate inroads she likely would not to have made on her own (Ripple). She shared my philosophy with her husband who works for a major company that just so happened to be a company I wanted to get into. He was so impressed with what I had done for his wife’s confidence that he wanted to learn more about what I did and how it might be applied in the work is company does. Today we are exploring ways to bring the Ripple concept into his company (Ripples extending out and returning to me).
Not all Ripples you create for others will automatically return to you but that isn’t the point. The simple fact that you are willing to take the chance and create a Ripple for someone stacks a significant portion of the odds in your favor that something good will come out of your efforts. Whether that is a Ripple that buoys your personal or professional agenda or not, the simple feeling of satisfaction of helping another human being in my opinion is the ultimate reward.
Stone. Water. Action.
Are you ready to Ripple?
Well then…..Ripple On My Friends!!!
We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects. –Herman Melville I am, at heart, a very optimistic person provided I have gotten enough sleep. Considering my unusual familiarity with the awful state of the world, my firm belief that solutions to many problems lie in what are currently some of the most obscure and marginalized belief systems on the planet, and my own long personal history of failure to realize or see sustained any positive trend in the current affairs of the world both locally and globally, my closest amigos often wonder what is at the root of my cheerfulness, to what pandora’s box do I regularly return for hope. By way of explanation, consider the quote from Melville above. Whether we perceive ourselves as living for ourselves alone or not, whether we are able to sense the "thousand fibers" connecting us to our fellows, to perhaps every particle in the universe, those connections are there. What we do and how we do it will probably have effects, forever and a day, to the end of time, and eventually in every corner of the cosmos. The effect of our actions can be profound, can over time be magnified, and can have great consequences. It would be impossible to predict just what results will be born from my or anyone’s actions, but we can assume, as an act of faith perhaps, that good will tend to breed further good, and bad will have the opposite effect. What is good and what is bad I leave entirely up to you. Melville has not been the only person to ever express the feeling that all is intertwined in some way that is not readily obvious. The same sentiments have been expressed by others working in the realm of literature, and this is a common theme expressed by some of the more religious among us, most notably among those who have described direct mystical vision. Read the works of Whitman. Consider the inspired origins of Buddism, Islam, or Christainity, and the thoughts of some saints. However transient the vision might have been, or muddled it became in the attempt to share the vision with others, it is a persistent theme in human history. The internet, with its intricate webwork, offers an interesting microcosmic model of the thousand, should we say trillion, fibers connecting us to which Melville alludes. If you ever wonder of what consequences so small a node as yourself could have on the vast web of life, consider the Butterfly effect and take heart. The Butterfly effect refers to the mathematical discovery back in 1963 by a meteorologist named Edward Lorenz who found that over time minute changes in a complex system like planetary weather lead to large-scale consequences. To describe the effect an analogy was made to the possiblity of a butterfly&39;s wing flapping in central Asia eventually causing a hurricane halfway around the world. It must be true. It’s math, right? It seems logical to assume that what is true for the complexity of weather systems is equally true for the complex, chaotic social systems we find ourselves immersed in. So flap your wings, and to the degree that you can do so purposefully in an attempt to further, at the very least, peace, love and understanding, flap hard. Someone somewhere down the line may enjoy the refreshing breeze. John Korber, December, 1998